From what I've read, I think it's easier to be a bottom than a Top. ( )

I love this book. Far more than a technical manual, it gets deep into the psychology of topping. It helps explain the kind of mindset you have to have for a successful kink encounter as a top. After all, everything else is secondary. You don't need floggers or props or anything but yourself to top. Also, importantly, it doesn't make any assumptions about which "types of people" prefer to top. Anyone can enjoy either role. ( )

This, along with "The New Bottoming Book", should be on every kinky person's bookshelf. Informative and well written. ( )