What a brave story. Susan Gold is brutally honest about her upbringing in a very toxic family. I applaud her efforts to break down everything that went into the creation of her family and what might have been the cause of her parents' and grandparents' behavior. This is a great ready for anyone trying to parse out their childhood, what happened and why certain situations are not their fault. Practical advice included is helpful too. ( )

The author’s story was interesting and relatable, especially landing as a young girl in the dangerous NYC of the 80s and the financial details of divorce in California. Less so her childhood and toxic family, which seemed vague to me… I guess to protect the identity, since they all seem to be around still. I do admire the author for succeeding against the odds, but wasn’t convinced by the spiritual slant. Also the forward was a little effusive for my taste. Still it was an interesting read. ( )

Susan Gold grew up in a very abusive household. She lacked love, understanding and just the right to be a child. She also grew up tougher than most children.
She has learned the tools to overcome her own sense of inferiority and kudos to her. ( )