Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life by Thomas Jordan, Ph.D. was written as a guidebook for people who are not in control of their love lives. Readers who are experiencing repeating love life disappointments and/or resigned to living without love in their lives, will find this book especially illuminating and thought-provoking. Dr. Thomas Jordan, a New York City psychologist/psychoanalyst, has been studying the psychological ability to form and sustain a healthy love relationship, and treating the ways people unwittingly repeat love life disappointments learned from the unhealthy relationship experiences they've had in their lives. Learn to Love explains how and what we learn about love relationships, and describes a highly effective method of stopping the cycle of repeating love life disappointments and/or resignation, when what we've learned was unhealthy. Dr. Jordan's method has helped many of his patients make improvements in their love lives, as well as improvements in his own love life.