Welp I kind of feel as though I’d like to be friends with the author as I’ve never related more to a collection of essays. She and I share a lot of loves including the movie Now, Voyager, wanting to create a commune house of women like the Golden Girls, and disappointment with the book Spinster. There’s so much here, and I loved how she blended her own story and experience with things like book or movie reviews. I’m definitely going to be returning to this when I need life affirmations; I do wish I had a friend network like she does as that’s my big fail. ( )