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The Invisible Girls: A Memoir (vuoden 2014 painos)

Tekijä: Sarah Thebarge (Tekijä)

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"Sarah Thebarge, a female cancer survivor, befriends a family of displaced Somali refugees, battling cultural barriers and sharing their struggle for survival to establish unlikely love and friendship"--Provided by the publisher.
Jäsen:christinegrabowski
Teoksen nimi:The Invisible Girls: A Memoir
Kirjailijat:Sarah Thebarge (Tekijä)
Info:Jericho Books (2014), 288 pages
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Thebarge tells two stories in this book: her breast cancer diagnosis and treatment/her world falling apart, and that of befriending a refugee family with five little girls.

The jumping back and forth between the two stories/timelines was incredibly frustrating. Her story of breast cancer was mildly interesting (I learned a few things!) and her friendship with the refugee family more so, but the two stories were really not connected and I felt that Thebarge should have written two different books!

Also, I agreed with other reviewers who stated concerns of a self-congratulatory, white-savior mentality on Thebarge's part. While I think Thebarge was doing her best to present their story accurately, she just didn't know the family well enough to tell it; she was missing so much information, probably due to the language barrier.

Note: There is a bit of profanity in this book.

(And the chapters are incredibly short, which means there are an awful lot of half-blank pages - what a waste of paper!) ( )
  RachelRachelRachel | Nov 21, 2023 |
I'm still trying to figure out what I thought about this book. I did like it but I wish it had tied together a little more. At times I felt like I was reading two separate memoirs. Usually I shy away from books that make a lot of references to God but I think it was powerful to read about Sarah's experiences. All in all, a good read but not one I will read again and again and again. ( )
  Stacie-C | May 8, 2021 |
A memoir written by Sarah Thebarge about her breast cancer at age 27 that leads to the loss of all her identity and dreams and her slow climb back to life. Sarah Thebarge was raised as a PK in a fundamental home with quite legalistic rules. When she is diagnosed with cancer, undergoes several surgeries and complications, loses her supposedly future husband, and her career comes to a screeching halt, she loses any trust in God. Sarah moves to Portland, Oregon where she meets a mother had her 5 children. They are immigrants from Somalia and are struggling to survive. Sarah befriends them and in doing so, she finds her way back to health and also her way back to God. This book gets either very low or very high reviews. I suspect it is because this book is written from the Christian perspective and most people seem to be quite intolerant of Christians talking about their perspective. Sarah's struggles with cancer, her deep depression, her anger, her questions of the God of her upbringing are all very real reactions. Writing this memoir would have been cathartic and healing. The finding her way back by forgetting her own misery and helping another person is a way to heal. In this book, Sarah shows through example how to see those who are invisible. The ones we all walk past without a second glance. While this is a book written by a Christian woman, it does not push God on anyone. It is only the story of the author's own search for meaning. Her friendship with the refugees was never about evangelism. She simply saw a need a found ways to meet those needs.

This book (audio, read by Kirsten Potter) was a free audio book from the AudioSync program in 2018. ( )
  Kristelh | Aug 23, 2019 |
I started out loving this book but then she got way to evangelical and had to skip all that stuff and those chapters. However the story line was very good and it was great to hear about refugees and the struggles they have that we "regulars" never see.
  ksmedberg | Jun 12, 2019 |
A memoir. I seem to be reading more memoirs these days than I have at any other point in my life. Maybe it's because more people are writing them? Or because people are taking memoir more seriously? Or because I'm taking memoir more seriously now that I've hit the wise, old age of 26? Probably, it partially has something to do with the rise of blogs and the coveted blog-to-book-deal dream.

I think this one was a blog-to-book-deal. At least, TheBarge mentions a blog. I tried to find it, but all I found was a wiped template with a few pages advertising the book. Now that a publisher is paying her for her story, the blog is dead.

This makes me sad for blogs.

Sarah TheBarge does have quite the story, and certainly a story that belong on paper, reaching more people than her blog would have, perhaps. At the age of 27, her life fell apart when she discovered blood on her shirt and, upon squeezing her breast, realize something was very very wrong. A double mastectomy. And then, it recurred. Essentially, TheBarge lived through a nightmare.

A few years later, in a new city, trying to restart her life, she meets a Somalian woman and her children on a bus and a new part of her story begins as she gets to know the family and helps them survive in the new and unfamiliar country.

It was a touching story. Emotional. Difficult to read. There were times I had to close the book on my commute home or face the embarrassment of crying on the subway. But, this book is also problematic in two very different ways.

1) Are you familiar with the White Saviour Complex? Admittedly, I was warned before I started this book that its pages are filled with it, so perhaps it was all the more glaring for me, this idea that Westerners, specifically white westerners, will save Africa, that, without us, they will be lost, suffering savages. This complex is generally attached to the attitude of Westerners when they go to African countries, but I couldn't ignore its presence in this book as well. TheBarge muses more than once about what would have happened to Hadhi, the Somalian woman, and her children if she hadn't met them on the bus that day. The problem with this? Hadhi is not empowered by TheBarge's attitude. Her work to care for her children, to eke out a life for them in this new place goes unacknowledged.

I would never say that we shouldn't acknowledge our privilege and recognize that we can help those who struggle here at home or in other countries. I'm not saying that TheBarge should have ignored this family on the bus. I'm not saying that she shouldn't have done all the things she did, bringing them gifts, helping them make ends meet. But her attitude about what she was doing irked me. Help, yes, but don't assume that you are the only thing protecting them from sure death and suffering.

2) TheBarge grew up in a strict Baptist community. The book is strongly Christian, which, being a Christian myself, I actually enjoyed. She makes some beautiful realizations about God and suffering as she struggles with her illness and her relationships. But, as she described her upbringing, her church, and the community in which she was raised, I became frustrated with what she wasn't saying. She shrugged off the emotional abuse, in one breath using it for shock value and in another, dismissing the actions of others as normal, as not their fault, as justified and rationalized. She holds the hurt of being abandoned by her church community and her boyfriend as she struggled through treatment at arms length, unwilling to acknowledge how absolutely shitty they were to her. It bothered me. Sometimes, I think people use religion as an excuse to be terrible to their kids, their spouses, those who are, in some way, under their control and no one ever holds them to their actions.

At the end of the book, I felt a little bit like TheBarge wasn't necessarily ready to write her story yet. It felt raw at times (see above, crying on the subway), but at others, she seemed to be holding the reader or her experience at arms length, laying out facts and actions without exploring them further, without letting the reader into the deep, gut-wrenching pain she must have gone through. Her journey was powerful, but in this book, I don't think she allowed it be.

http://www.thisdustyhouse.com/2013/05/this-dusty-bookshelf-invisible-girls-by.ht... ( )
  Wordbrarian | Mar 5, 2019 |
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