A foundational book for all adults to help you discover the skill of listening in three different areas of your life-helping your relationships, helping others, and helping yourself. Helping Your Relationships-Here the focus is on freedom from the bondage of legalism as it impacts relationships; as well as communication skills for moving through life with another imperfect person who needs the grace of God as much as you. Helping Others-You learn, in your role as a servant leader, how to shine a flashlight on the path into another's conflict-to help him discover his way back to God and people he cares for. You learn how to lead him to self-discovery and confession at the foot of the cross. You show him how to leave his burden there through the cleansing and forgiveness of the Lord. Helping Yourself-To experience relief from pain, as well as to enjoy the peace, joy, and love that come through a life of faith empowered by the grace of God.