Matthew Hanover

An extended version of this originally appeared at The Irresponsible Reader.
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WHAT'S NOT PREPARED ABOUT?
Our protagonist, Neil, is a single photographer approaching 40. He's fairly successful and comfortable with his life—which is primarily about his work and staying healthy. He enjoys a few romantic dalliances but stopped pursuing anything serious some time back. He's fairly free and likes his life—outside of some family he rarely sees (largely due to circumstance, not preference), he really has no ties. Well, there's the daughter of his childhood friend—Neil was named her godfather when she was born a little over a decade ago, shortly before his friend died. He's seen her a few times over the years and babysat her occasionally, but that's about it.

One night, the now 12-year-old Chloe shows up on his doorstep. Chloe says her mom dropped her off on her way out of town for a few days and that she needs to stay with Neil. It's not really the most convenient or thoughtful way to do this, but Neil doesn't begrudge Chloe for it—her mother, Sara, has never been thoughtful or responsible so it fits.

The next day, Neil takes Chloe to get some clothes—Sara left her without any. He's not crazy about this, but it needs to happen. Neil's really not crazy about helping her find underwear or a training bra. Thankfully, there's a woman near them in the store who sees Neil's predicament and comes to his aid.

Naturally, because it's this kind of book, there's a spark between this woman, Jenna, and Neil. A couple of days after their meet-cute, the two meet for coffee. The sparks are still there—and Jenna's able to give Neil a hint or two about dealing with Chloe.

Neil's going to need more than a hint or two because Chloe eventually comes clean with him—she has no idea where her mom went and when/if she'll be coming home. Chloe's looking for a new home and family, and she's picked Neil (and would like Jenna to be part of it, too).

This is the last thing that Neil bargained for, but he's drawn to the idea (about both Chloe and Jenna). Now the question is, can they make it work?

CHLOE
When I posted about Hanover's first book, Not Famous , I spent a lot of time talking about the protagonist's younger sister. She wasn't that integral to the plot, but brought out aspects of the central characters you wouldn't have seen otherwise—but more than that, she's a perfectly charming character that you wanted to see more of. In Not Prepared, Hanover takes a very similar character and makes her the focus of the novel.

If that's all he did, I'd be a fan of the book—thankfully he does more (some of which I'll talk about in a minute). But let's focus on Chloe for a moment.

So, obviously, she's a mess. Her mother abandoned her and it's pretty clear that before she literally abandoned her, Sara put the minimal amount of effort (at best) in before that. She's not used to being cared for, for having limits placed on her, for having a reliable presence of any kind—once she's given those she responds well to them and flourishes (probably responds a bit too well, but we're not looking for gritty realism here).

Chloe's also obviously an intelligent and resourceful girl who sees her opportunity and seizes it. Not simply for her physical needs—but she's long had an emotional tie to Neil and she makes the most of her time with him to feed and nurture that bond. It takes Neil a bit to understand just what he's meant to her for so long, but once he does he reciprocates.

It's both the portrayal of Chloe and the depiction of their relationship—in all of its ups and downs, flaws and strengths—that makes this book so strong

A MEETING OF ANXIETIES
Neil suffers from health anxiety—a term he (understandably) prefers to hypochondria—which leads him to spend a lot of time in hospitals and doctor's offices. He's both very aware that he's very likely completely healthy and yet he's frequently convinced that he has any number of undiagnosed conditions or ailments, frequently exasperated by news reports or pharmaceutical commercials. This is something that's impacted his life as long as he can remember—and having a dear friend die at a young age likely didn't help. As a result of this, he's rather health conscious, particularly when it comes to the food he buys and prepares. Which is exactly what a 12-year-old doesn't want to hear or experience.

Jenna struggles with brumotactillophobia (a form of OCD relating to foods touching each other), which sounds like something to chuckle over, but for Jenna, it's a serious and frequently embarrassing issue.

Neil's lost relationships—short-term and incredibly serious—because of his anxiety. Jenna has, too—the number of first dates she's had that have ended in disaster is the kind of thing to make anyone into a social hermit. Because they can relate to each other's hardships—and because they're basically decent people capable of empathy—both of them can understand and accept the other. In fact, it's an early way for them to bond. There are points throughout the novel where they're able to help each other with their anxiety, which just made me love them as a couple and like the book even more.

Chloe's better for spending time with both of them and seeing how they cope and deal with their anxieties—she's better than any of the characters in the book at supporting them through bumps in the road. As I type this, I realize it's due in part to her having spent her entire life taking care of her mother, so maybe it's not as heartwarming a point as I initially thought. Still, it endeared me to her.

ALLI CORNWELL
For years, one aspect of Marvel (and related) movies that was a sure-fire pleaser was the inventive way that Stan Lee would show up in some sort of cameo. Hanover's not quite at that point with the singer-songwriter that was at the center of his first novel, Not Famous, but it's in sight.

I do enjoy seeing how Alli will pop up in the various books. And somehow—don't ask me how, I'm worried it's a sign of cognitive decline—when she does pop up I'm surprised.
Me: Oh, wow! That was great that he tied Alli into this.
Voice in My Head: You mean like he always does? Why weren't you looking for it?
Me (grumbling): Shut up.

In a way that won't bother anyone who's never read a Hanover book before, her presence is felt throughout the novel, beginning with one of my favorite lines of the book.

POST-CREDITS SCENE?
IIf Marvel (and other) movies* have taught us anything in the last 15 years, it's that you don't leave the movie theater until the credits have stopped rolling and all the lights have come up. Period. Sure, you'll get a complete story if you do, but you'll be missing something.

Hanover has provided his readers with a "post-credits" chapter—a bonus chapter that you can access for free. Now, if you don't, you will get the entire story and you should be completely satisfied (I sure was). But the bonus chapter? That will make you happier and give you a better idea of what will happen to our characters. My ARC didn't have the entire bonus chapter—but it had enough to give me that boost that a good-post credits scene does (and it gives me a reason to actually open the version I pre-ordered, so I can access the rest of it).

* That's entirely too many Marvel movie references for a post here—particularly for a book bereft of super powers. Oops.

SO, WHAT DID I THINK ABOUT NOT PREPARED?
This is the best thing that Hanover has published—it's also my favorite so far. Any of the three central characters would be enough to qualify the book for the latter—but you throw them together, and it's a lock.

Jenna is an independent, self-assured woman who knows her limitations, has a strong sense of self and her morality, and because of that, is able to let herself be vulnerable and open to those she wants to be vulnerable and open to. She makes room for Neil and Chloe because it's her choice, not because she's driven to, or needs something.

I've said enough about Chloe at this point that any more would be overkill—so I'll leave it with saying that she's an adorable kid that I want to read a sequel or three about (but not really, because I'd rather imagine what happens after this than know).

Then there's Neil—a mature narrator/protagonist, rather than the twentysomething still trying to figure out what kind of life he wants. Neil has his life, he's responsible, his career's in a good place. Somewhat by force and a sense of duty (with a twinge of guilt), but primarily because he wants to—he changes his life to accommodate Chloe. This will ultimately prove to change his whole life for the better.

There are no easy answers in Not Prepared, nothing works out just the way that any of the characters are looking for or expect (no readers, I'd wager). But there's hope, there's possibility, there's a solid base for good things for them all. I think this is as good a sign for Hanover's storytelling as it is for the book itself—there's some mature writing at work here.

Possibly my favorite thing here is that while this book is at heart a Rom-Com, the romantic story takes a backseat to the love story between the girl who needs a family and a bachelor who didn't expect one. There's still plenty of "rom", and a good amount of "com" of a handful of stripes (particularly when it comes to a single man being thrust into dealing with a young girl at the cusp of puberty)—but there's a lot more, too.

It's all told with Hanover's trademark wit, charm, and grace—prose that moves so smoothly you don't realize how long you've spent sucked into his book. He won me over starting at the prologue, and I don't know if I stopped grinning throughout (well, except to chuckle or smile). The emotions are real and grounded—both positively and negatively. His depictions of anxiety really impressed me, and there are scenes between Chloe and Neil that got me choked up.

I strongly recommend this warm comedy about an unorthodox way to start a family.… (lisätietoja)

★ ★ ★ ★ 1/2 (rounded up)
This originally appeared at The Irresponsible Reader.
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WHAT'S NOT AWKWARD ABOUT?
I'm assuming I'm not the only one who finds themselves in a situation like this—I halfway expected to find a Jeff Murdock monologue about this, but alas... You go to an event of some kind because of family obligation, an acquaintance, your Significant Other's employer—not because you really want to, but you feel you should. Once there, you stay an adequate amount of time and try to make your excuses and leave. But the host or someone talks you into staying for a little longer, and a little longer after that. While you may not be actively hating the experience, you're certainly not enjoying yourself much and are looking for an opportunity to make a tactful exit.

This is pretty much the situation that Scott finds himself in. But rather than a birthday party for your second cousin you haven't seen in a decade, Scott finds himself as a guest at his ex-girlfriend's house while they sit shiva for her father. Recently fired and about to get married, Scott felt like he should go to the funeral for the man who always treated him so well. One thing led to another and Leila's mother compelled him to stay for a night, which turns into another, and another...

Scott's fiance, Charlotte, is off for a bachelorette's week with his sister and Charlotte's closest friend, Quinn. So there's nothing for him to go home to, and he can search for jobs from Leila's as well as anywhere. So he sticks around as emotional support (and/or emotional punching bag, depending on Leila's understandably shifting moods require), and finds himself with an opportunity to get the closure he didn't realize he needed and maybe even an explanation for why she dumped him out of the blue six years ago. Or maybe, something else will end up happening between the two.

SPEEDCUBING
A few months ago, one of the local newscasts had a feature about an area resident who used to take part in Rubik's Cube competitions on a pretty high level, it looked back on his competitions and "does he still have it?" No, he doesn't. But he's still faster than at least 96% of anyone who's ever solved one.

So when we learn that Charlotte is a speedcuber, going to competitions, posting videos to social media, my mind immediately went back to that and I was in. Most readers aren't going to have that particular background, but Charlotte's hobby (for lack of a better word, but it's not quite right) is going to make her stand out in readers' minds—how often have you come across a character who does that? What I appreciated most about the Rubik's cube thing is that was it starts out as a character quirk, but by the end, Hanover finds some thoughtful things to do with it—revealing something about the character (and a little more).

THE SISTER FACTOR
A mistake that readers like me can make is to think they've figured out all a writer's moves, I really thought I had a handle on the role of "protagonist's sister" in Hanover's books. So when Quinn shows up pretty early, I sat up and paid attention to her. Which is when I noticed that Quinn is going to serve another role in this novel. She's not an antagonist, but she's certainly an obstacle for both Charlotte and Scott to overcome.

She's been best friends with Charlotte since childhood—and try as she might, she's still having trouble shifting from being Charlotte's best friend to her best friend and brother's significant other/future sister-in-law. I wasn't entirely sold on this particular arc, but it helped us get a different look at Scott and his love life, and in the final third or so of the novel, it really paid off.

Along the same lines, Hanover hasn't given us a protagonist's brother before. I really didn't care for this one—but I wasn't supposed to*, he was written in such a way that it'd be hard to like him at all. But Scott and Quinn having an older brother is a new dynamic for Hanover and it works pretty well.

* And I won't even get started about his wife.

THE INTERCONNECTEDNESS OF IT ALL
In Not Dressed, Hanover alludes to a couple of characters and events from Not Famous, but here in Not Awkward he goes a lot further—the characters and events actually show up in the text. Sure, it's done in such a way that people who haven't read the other books won't be short-changed when it comes to understanding this novel. But if you have read them, you'll appreciate the way that Hanover has woven them into these pages.

It's a great way to make a reader smile when they recognize something. But better, it's a fantastic way to touch base with characters from one of those books. "Oh, look X got engaged." Or "hey, Y and Z will be working together." We also get to see characters like that in a different setting and from a different perspective. Rather than having to go through the bother with writing a whole new novel about one of Not Dressed's characters, with a few scenes in this (that move the plot along and help us understand Scott better), we see that character in a whole new light and it may change what you think of some parts of that other book.

Again, I stress—if you haven't read his other novels, or if you don't remember the details, it won't matter at all.

EEP! A CONSERVATIVE!
There is a character in this book who is a political conservative who works in politics (in more of the pre-2015 mold, I should stress), but this is a non-political book. The fact that they are conservative is mentioned a few times, and two (I think—no more than three) positions are mentioned. There are no debates, explanations, or arguments for the positions.

I mention this only because in our current climate, a lot of readers (from all over the political spectrum) run for the hills when politics come up. There is no need for that here—it's brought up occasionally, but not in any kind of detail. No political position is ever endorsed or supported, or discussed in any kind of depth.

SO, WHAT DID I THINK ABOUT NOT AWKWARD?
While this is a lighter read, as is the norm for a "lad lit" novel—it's not as funny as Hanover's earlier works. That said, there are a couple of moments that are comedic gold. Slap-stick humor is difficult to pull off in print, but Hanover makes it look fairly effortless.

At at least three points in this novel, I assumed I knew how the rest would play out, "Oh, it's going to be ____ kind of a story." And I was wrong each time—thankfully. Instead, Hanover has given us a different kind of story than he has in the past, a subtler one, a more mature one.* One still infused with his trademark warmth, heart, and appeal. But there's more going on, there's a little ambiguity about some things. Experience is making a better author out of Hanover.

* Although I would have been satisfactorily charmed and entertained by the kind of story he's given us before.

There were aspects of the story or characters that I wasn't crazy about—but I'm not going to get into that at this point, because I don't know what will happen to those things between the beta stage and the final version (although I was told about some directions he was going and that made me feel better). Maybe I'll update this when the final version is out—maybe I won't, we'll see how much I care once it hits. But whatever quibbles I might have had, that's all they were, quibbles. And they paled in comparison to the novel as a whole.

Because I wanted to think carefully about this novel, I wouldn't let myself read more than 10-15 percent of it a night. That was hard. I wanted to read the whole thing in one sitting—and easily could have. I literally had to force myself to stop reading each time I picked it up so I could send my feedback and do other things. But I wanted to keep going, I had such a great time with these characters, this story, and Hanover's writing.

Somewhere in there is Hanover's secret—no matter what dumb, reckless, obnoxious, or (have to say it) awkward thing his characters do, you like them. You can't help but do so. Scott said a couple of things in the first chapter that really made me wonder if I wanted to go through an entire book with him. By the third, I was pulling for the guy. This goes for Leila, too—not only did she break Scott's heart six years ago, but she didn't even tell him why. But in no time flat, you're hoping she's doing okay after her father's death and you feel bad for the situation she finds herself in. If it's bad enough that she talks Scott into sticking around...

And I've gone on far too long here. I need to wrap things up.

Not Awkward is a warm and heart-filled story about revisiting the past, finding healing (whether or not you thought you needed it), and embracing a future that doesn't look like you expected it would (and is probably better). It's the kind of book that'll make you feel a little better about life for a while—and who doesn't want to read something like that?… (lisätietoja)