The Rules of Life consists of 99 rules, which constitute “a code for living a better, happier, more successful kind of life” the blurb states. I would tell you all about it but Rule 1 is: Keep It under Your Hat!

“You are about to become a Rules Player. You are about to embark on a life-changing adventure, possibly, if you choose to accept the mission. You are about to discover ways to become positive happier, more successful in everything you do. So there’s no need to say anything about it. Keep quiet. No one likes a smart arse. First Rule: Keep it under your hat.”

The advice is sensible but the “more successful in everything you do” bit is overstating the case, somewhat.

In a calm and measured voice that is enjoyable to read the author quietly outlines some common sense practical attitudes to adopt.

For example in rule 65: Contentment is a high aim, he writes: “Happiness is such an illusory thing that spending too much time chasing it is not very worthwhile. Happiness is one end of a spectrum – misery being the other end. Instead of aiming for happy, it’s better to aim for contentment.” He uses the example of falling madly in love, which is an intense experience in which the feelings can’t and won’t last. “No one can live at that intensity, that lofty attitude all the time. Contentment is what you hope for after the elation has worn off and you settle back into a relaxed and happy simplicity.” He postulates that contentment lasts and is thus the more worthwhile aim.

As well as serious content, Templar spices his text with a pleasing wit.

My Recommendation:

Cons: There is very little that is new or revolutionary in the book and it overstates its case to be life-changing.

Pros: Nevertheless, Templar presents his ideas in a low-key acceptable style, which is enjoyable to read. He teaches enlightened common sense. ( )

A lot of this is from the department of the bloody obvious. It's mostly about being a good citizen, being an honourable human being and treating others as you would like to be treated. It's pretty obvious stuff but occasionally it's nice to be encouraged to be nice. ( )